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A Story of Good People Helping a Good Kid in Need

By Nick Corey, TrackWrestling, 01/08/19, 12:00PM CST

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Caring teachers, coaches and an anonymous donor all part of wrestler Donnie Wilson's success story

“He never stops. And he’s one of the most respectful individuals I’ve ever coached.”

Six miles separate Cincinnati’s Lower Price Hill neighborhood from Mount St. Joseph University.

For Donnie Wilson, a freshman 184-pounder at the Division III school, the two are worlds apart.

Diagnosed with apraxia — a neurological condition that can make certain motor skills difficult or impossible — Wilson didn’t speak his first word until he was 6.

School was torture for Wilson, centered as it is on academics and socialization. He was a first grader at Oyler School in the Cincinnati Public School system, located in Lower Price Hill, a neighborhood known more for its poverty and surrounding despair than the nurturing of hope.

Slowly, Wilson would learn to talk, afflicted with a noticeable stutter that remains today.

Wilson remembers the school psychologist at Oyler, John Welling.

“Mr. Welling would bring me in his office when I needed it,” said Wilson. “He’d talk with me when I needed it.”

Said Welling: “With school being a language-based environment, can you imagine the frustration not able to express yourself? I’d walk by his classroom, and if he needed time away, I’d take him. But Donnie never stopped trying.”

Welling would work with Wilson, as would Laura Tapke, his speech therapist. Both were pivotal for him at Oyler.

Sue Fox, his seventh and eighth grade teacher, was, too. By the time Wilson had Fox in class, his father had died of cancer.

“My dad could fix anything,” Wilson said. “He would say, ‘If I can’t buy it for you, I’ll make it for you,’ and he would, too: go-carts and dirt bikes — anything.”

Eddie Wilson’s illness brought a pinch to the family’s already lean finances.

“When he became too sick to work every day, sometimes he’d take me dumpster diving,” Wilson said. “We’d find cell phones and computers, and my dad would fix them at home and sell them.”

There’s discernible idol worship when Wilson speaks of his father’s mechanical abilities. It’s also present remembering his parents’ priorities.

“They’d eat saltine crackers sometimes,” he said. “That would be their meal, so we (kids) could have regular food.”

There’s discernible regret, too.

“We didn’t have a lot of money, but my mom knew how to dress,” he said. “My dad, he would always wear an old T-shirt with a pocket. He’d always have cigarettes in that pocket.

“I would get embarrassed. I never wanted him to drop me off anywhere. I wanted my mom to.”

He paused.

“I’d give anything to drive somewhere with my dad today,” he said.

Life changed for Donnie Wilson in eighth grade.

“Mrs. Fox talked about Elder to me.” Wilson said.

Elder High School is a private, all-boys Catholic school in Cincinnati. Fox’s husband and sons attended Elder. She realized Wilson needed the added structure Elder could provide. Fox made calls about financial aid possibilities, working with Wilson’s mother, Jackie, on applying.

In the spring of his eighth-grade year, Wilson learned he was accepted to Elder.

“I couldn’t believe it,” he said.

Dan Kreimer — now in his 54th year of teaching — would be a life-preserver in the vast ocean of Wilson’s new and unfamiliar surroundings at Elder.

“Donnie wasn’t a kid who complained,” Kreimer said. “He was happy with what he had, and the faith environment, the positive attitude about being successful, and the expectation of being successful was good for Donnie. He’s does his work. He’s not a quitter.”

Halfway through Wilson’s junior year, even the reduced-tuition portion was becoming difficult for Jackie. Donnie Wilson was anxious, figuring he’d have to leave the school he’d grown to love.

Hearing of his plight, an anonymous donor paid the remaining balance of Wilson’s junior and entire senior year.

“That award letter, when I read it, it got drenched in tears,” Wilson said. “So much stress lifted off my mom and me.”

And maybe that’s what this story is about — good people helping a good kid in need, and a college wrestling coach who’s never known his role in Wilson’s story.

Towards the end of eighth grade, Wilson was invited to hear Ohio State coach Tom Ryan speak. Ryan was in Cincinnati to deliver a clinic and talk. Wilson caught Ryan’s talk with his mom. Both felt kinship with Ryan’s message of overcoming, of finding purpose in hardship.

“I remember, we got in the car, and Donnie said: ‘I want to wrestle,’ ” Jackie said. “He’d never wrestled, but something happened that day. Donnie wanted to be part of it.”

Jackie responded like any good mother.

“I told him fine,” she said. “But he wasn’t allowed to quit.”  

In Wilson’s senior year, he compiled a record of 23-3 wrestling for Elder’s varsity “B” squad —  backups who wrestle in smaller varsity tournaments.

“That day started something for Donnie, just hearing and meeting Coach Ryan one time,” Jackie said. “Donnie had his picture taken with him. It’s in a frame on a wall in his room.”

Wilson is 0-4 this year, his freshman year for the Lions.

His coaches aren’t worried.

“Donnie brings a work ethic all wrestlers should emulate,” Mount St. Joseph assistant coach Elliott Spence said. “He never stops. And he’s one of the most respectful individuals I’ve ever coached.”

What will make his college wrestling career successful?

Wilson responded without a stutter.

“If my teammates and coaches know I always tried hard,” he said. “That I never quit.”

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